Well, I guess it's about time, that I get to tell a little of this.
A little history:
Electro stimulation can, basically, describe a lot of things, and the history of it goes back to the finding that if you pierce a fresh frog-leg, with at bi-metal 'battery', the muscles will contract, although the frog is longtime dead.
At some given point, somebody found out, that this could be utilized, to make a living muscle contract, if an electrode was placed at either end of the muscle, on the skin.
Following this, it became obvious that it was a way to train muscles, although the 'owner' relaxed. This resulted in an endless stream of training-devices, promising among other things bulging muscles, weight loss, if not eternal happiness...
Now, the S&M-folks have always been inventive, and they found, that this kind of gadgets could be used within 'the scene'. Next thing to happen, was that someone found out how to make gadgets, which were suited for as well the S&M-scene, as 'vanilla' stimulation.
2 different types :
There are, in general, 2 different ways to electro stimulate, and thus there is also 2 different types of apparatus out there.
One is the E-tens, short for 'electro-tension' or 'electrically
induced muscle tension', made for the honourable purpose of getting muscles to
'tighten up', when exposed to current, whereas they should relax again, when the
current stops.
This result in a rather 'unpolished' current, as the muscles seem to react to
almost any kind of current.
The 'unpolished' current can be used i.e. within BDSM. I have a "Rimba" thing, which I've tried a few things with, as this one was the only one I could afford.
My experience, with this one are a little mixed, but they form the basis, for my experience with electro stimulation. The rest of what you find here, is something which I've read, or have from other reliable sources.
The other one is E-stim, short for 'electro stimulation'. Basically
it's build on the experiences from the E-tens, but as there is quite a confusion
between these two things, I thought, that I'd take them apart, for you.
The benefit of E-stim over E-tens is, that the current-patterns in E-stim are
far more 'polished'. In fact the E-stim current patterns are created to 'cheat'
the nerves to give you a feeling of 'action', i.e. touching, resulting purely
from the current flowing into the nerves, making them 'believe' (or at least
letting them report to your brain) that i.e. you're getting a blowjob, instead
of reporting, that you're wearing a cockring and a buttplug.
I've heard, from a reliable woman, that one of her experiences was 'like being fisted, without having to worry, what went amiss down there' - that is, only having a ormal sized dildo inside her pussy.
Experienced users tell, that the experience, with a good E-stim box, is very real and 'alive'.
Toys:
There are no ends to what toys you cn buy today. They range from adhesive pads, over dildos and cockrings, to complete (un)chastity-belts for both sexes, among which you'll even find one, which can deliver wireless stimulation jolts, at randomly chosen intervals.
Of course I've played around with making my own tools, and here you get a few pics. Click them, to see them full-sized.
The logic in making your own toys is actually quite simple. You'll need (at least) two 'points of contact' between which the current can flow. it is so, that the current will flow between plus and minus (or between phase and ground, for the technical minded).
A classic is a cockring, just below the penis head, accompanied by a buttplug. You connect the cockring to the one wire (i.e. + or red), and the buttplug, to the other (i.e. minus or black). By the way, you'll soon find, that the use of a 'conducting agent' i.e. electro-gel will drastically improve your experience, as this ensures a good contact between the toy, and your skin.
The cheap shortcut, to getting your own connection wires is, that you after using the adhesive pads, that usually come with the device, grab the wire and plug firmly, and rip it from the pad. This should leave you, with a piece of wire, with a plug at one end, and a piece of 'naked conductors' at the other. Now, I don't know how all the pads are made, but it worked nicely for me.
I then attached the 'naked' end of the wire to i.e. my cockring, using a few
rounds of electricians tape. This gave me a nice electro-stimulation-cockring,
as I remembered to get the naked wires into contact with the steel.
However, it pays off to remember, that the material, of which the toy is build
MUST conduct electricity, There's no idea in taping a wire to a plastic dildo...
Yet another detail, worth mentioning, is, that the bigger the surface, the more pleasurable the experience. This fact comes with a conradiction though; as the bigger the surface, the more power is needed, in order to produce any given amount of stimulation.
My experience:
The different experiences I've had, with this device are:
1/ a 'buzzing' feeling, like the one from a vibrator, though soundless.
2/ a 'sucking/milking' feeling, somewhat similar to getting a good blowjob.
3/ a 'throbbing' feeling, like the one you get, when your hard-on is so hard,
that it's throbbing with your heartbeat.
4/ a 'stinging' feeling, like if you're hit, with the 'hairy' side of a
hairbrush.
How do I introduce my partner to electro stimulation ?
(This question is one I got, in another context, but I think, that my answer came out so good, that I'd bring it here too. The question was asked by a guy, who would like to introduce his electro-curious girlfriend to electro stimulation).
Actually it might be an advantage for you, if you let her read this explanation, in order to let her be aware of what your plans are.
In general, you'll be introducing her to electro stimulation, in a playful manner, and the fact that you're connected to the box as well as she is, just might take away her fear of the unknown, by clearly
signaling, that it's so safe, that you're offering to take control of what's going on,
receiving whatever she's doing on your own privates, as well as she will.
Dealers/producers of electro stimulation gadgets:
A link to Wikipedia, where you can read more about the different types and ways of E-stimulation.
A link to Wiredpussy, where you'll find pictures af movieclips of electro stimulation (of woman).
An (old) movie clip with me: