I'm 40 years old, and born in Risskov by Århus (a large city in Jutland).
Here I'm the webmaster, creative manager, idea-person, and well I'm also the guy
getting to pay the bills...
The basic idea in this homepage is to give myself, and everyone else for that
matter, an outlet for creative erotic inventions. I'd like to get my ideas out
into the open, as I am rather creative in this aspect. It's almost like when
I've gotten an idea - I have a craving to put it to paper ( or, as here;
on-screen ). I'm inventing stuff for men as well as woman, but I must admit,
that the beautiful sex has a greater idea-potential within my crazy mind.
As an SM-person, I am what is also in Danish known as a "switch",
meaning that I am sexually aroused by dominating as well as by being dominated.
That's not always as simple as it might sound, as the public opinion divides
sadomasochists into two groups only. There's the sadists, and the masochists,
but those who are as-well-as, are not easily understood. My pleasant experience,
however is, that when you get to talk to SM-people, they mostly are switches as
well, either living it, or in case they are more to the one side than to the
other, they use their largest side of their sexuality.
Apart from being an SM-person, I'm also a fetishist. I've had the pleasant
experience of encountering latex, in a good quality, which does not feel like a
plastic bag. That really did turn me on, as well as I'm definitely turned on by
a woman in a sharp latex outfit. I also like good leather craftsmanship, but I'm
not sure if it's really a fetish connected to the leather itself, or if it's
rather the options in using e.g. a set of good leather straps, that is turning
me on.
AND, as if it wasn't enough; I'm also an exebithionist. I'm usually a
hound for attention, but in a sexual context the thrill is even bigger. I get
absolutely aroused by e.g. wearing a tight body bondage underneath my regular
clothes, and the going to the mall, or taking a stroll in the neighboring forest.
Another turn-on, is to 'dress up' in a tight bondage, covering it all by a rain
cape and a pair of boots and then again go walking in the forest. (But don't you
think that it's what I'm always wearing, if you see me in a rain cape...).
At present I'm no longer single, but I've had the pleasure to be in a few long-lasting
relationships, and that's who I am; I am the personification of the old English
bloodhound, called "Old faithful", when I'm involved with a partner.
Not that I cannot be part of almost any kind of sexual fun, but it's got to be
with my partner, either as an active participant, or as the one sitting in the
corner enjoying the show.
In a safe context, there are almost no limitations to what I'd be part of, but
there are a few exceptions, and here they are:
Needles and syringes. I know that this might seem absurd, if you've been
browsing my picture book, but I'm absolutely terrified beyond any sexual limit,
if it's anybody, but my piercer, ( or myself ) who's got a needle !
Dirty sex. I think it's okay, if people wants to play around with their human
waist products, but they are encouraged to do so, when I'm not there.
Sexual abuse. I basically think, that anything that people can get aroused by
doing amongst themselves, or to themselves are okay, as long as the persons
involved have given their qualified consent. The single exception would be a
suicidal person making arrangements with a necrophilic...
But what do I mean, by the term "qualified consent" ? Well, here's
part of the explanation;
First of all, it's a necessity in order to give your qualified consent, that
you've got a general idea, to let you know what you're agreeing to.
Secondly you need to have an idea what the possible consequences could be, if
you agree to this or that.
Finally it's an absolute demand, that you agree, in a situation where you're not
under pressure.
A general idea: I think that it is absolutely banned, that an adult drag a child
into the adult sexual experience. Regardless of how much the child say "Yes",
and regardless how much response the child's body is giving to sexual
stimulation. A child does not have any clue to what's going on in the adult
sexual world, and therefore the child can not give a qualified consent,
regardless what the Danish pedophile organization thinks of that !
On the other hand, I don't mind an adult masochist giving himself away to
another adult sadist. I expect the masochist to have made agreements to what is
OK, and what is not; and if he hasn't, it's not morally wrong, it's just stupid
!
Consequences: Once again child-abuse is the obvious example, but
there's another case which I think is describing this even better. Some time ago,
a mentally disabled woman was talked into having sex with a complete stranger
here in Denmark; and became pregnant as a result of that. She obviously had no
concept of pregnancy, either as a situation, or as a possible consequence of
having unprotected sex.
I do absolutely not think that the disabled citizens should be cut off ( in
either meaning of the words ) from having sex. On the contrary ! But I think,
that to talk a mentally disabled woman into being part of an unprotected sex act,
from which she can become pregnant, is wrong, simply because she has no concept
of what she's ( more or less ) agreeing to, and/or has no concept of the
possible consequences.
Pressure: Actually I think, that it's a problem, if a wife 'gives her husband
what he wants', only because it's Saturday evening, as well as if you act on a
woman's spoken consent, being a rapist having her at gunpoint ! But I also think,
that it's a problem if the pressure is psychological. The most obvious example
being the suicidal person making an agreement with a necrophilic*. The pressure
is not necessarily imposed by the necrophilic, but it is influencing in a very
distinct manner anyhow. It might be the pressure of a collapsed life or any
other reason, but I don't think that a person who is this jeopardized, can give
a qualified consent.
WELL... enough about what's turning me off, there's thanks heaven more to life
than that !
Apart from being webmaster+ here, I write stories ( in Danish ! ) as well as
poems, or maybe the correct phrase would be verses. On top of all that, I've got
a nine-to-five job, or rather a 7-3 job, and I've been fortunate enough to find
myself a job, that I really like! I'm a so-called handyman in a factory in the
city where I'm living. The staff has grown 300% within 1½ years, but the
physical frames have not, so there's lots of fun, for an inventor like myself !
Now, that's about all, about me - but I expect that I'll have the opportunity to
present others, who is contributing with inventions, pictures and/or...
Remember; If sex isn't fun, it isn't worth the while !
Lars
*Necrophilic: A person who is sexually turned on by having sex with the dead.